I wrote about how to save money while preparing for a baby when I was expecting our first kiddo – and (not to toot my own horn or anything) I was totally right when I said that raising kids DOESN’T have to cost you nearly as much as you think it does – OR nearly as much as the “average” family spends.
This first thing is something I am PASSIONATE about. My friend from Caroline (from carolinevencil.com) recently shared with me an experience she had at the doctors office where she was chatting with a woman, and mentioned that she bought second hand clothes for her kids… and this woman JUDGED her!
Getting serious about what you spend on groceries can seriously reduce the cost of raising kids. Meal planning is one of the best ways to drastically cut down on your grocery bill. (Bonus – knowing that you have dinner ready to go in the crock post doesn’t only save money, but it saves so much time and stress as well. I suggest using a cheap meal planning program like Eat at Home Cooks!)
You are not “depriving” your children if you don’t put them in every sport or every club. They will still learn to be social, to be good losers, to be active, even if they take part in fewer things. They will also learn to be intentional with their choices.